The Power of Your Thoughts Affecting Your Environment

       Generally, we come across a lot of thoughts in our mind most of which, as said by a psychologist, is considered to mediate between inner and external stimuli of our whole activities. Now, we never get carried along with the boredom of theories, which makes this blog about the power which our thoughts hold and how they affect our environment and how we interact with everything. We can never control how this works, but there are a lot of ways that we can manipulate these thoughts in our own advantage and do not depend on any source for the same. 

 How do our thoughts work?

       First things first, it is a well-known but hardly arguable fact that we cannot control our thoughts. The thing here is that we may not have the control over what we think or the kind of thoughts we get but we always have the control over how those thoughts originate in our minds which is basically getting to the root of the topic. We always have to instill the pieces of information which we find to take in ourselves to trick our mind into having the thoughts which we require. Lets us look at an example- You are going down the street late at night and notice that a creepy man is looking at you across the street. In this situation, either you walk away with a feeling of discomfort or just treat him as just another guy who happened to see you. Here, there were two kinds of responses, the first one was where you got uncomfortable which would have led to various violent possibilities in which that guy would have done while the second one would lead to a thought of casually surpassing a stranger and nothing to worry about. This is the only differentiating factor in the way of thinking and can go a long way in making our lives better by controlling the power of our thoughts.

The influence of our thoughts based on our situation. 

      We, as social beings, live in an environment full of people and are constantly reminded of the way we should be thinking, which is mostly influenced by the way we are raised or the kind of people we grow up with. What this does is that, it makes most of us think in a certain way which we don't want to and are mostly under constant self doubt. This is where some of us miss all the opportunities we could have got if the people around us were slightly better. Which makes the need of controlling our own thoughts so useful in getting to know ourselves better with oneself and not with the wild judgement of others around us. We should learn to take a moment to process the thoughts according to our advantage before we tend to speak or interact with them when you are under a deep thought process. This is what constitutes the power of our thoughts. 

The thought process and how we deal with them.

      There are a variety of uses of our thoughts based on the situation which we deal in a situation. We tend to say some things based on the environment and the nature of the people around us. This creates the scent of fitting in with the people around us even though we are not supposed to. What this does is that, when we are not around the people and do not fit in, the thoughts which come in our mind are not very ideal and may not be as effectively powerful as they would be if we were in a situation where we feel that we fit in. These things always happen with many people when their thoughts don't match the situation or the people around them in a function or gathering and they end up feeling low. This is not supposed to happen with everyone but if you relate to this, you have to control your thoughts by prioritizing what you are and how to be yourself in a given situation. 

How to gain control and be yourself?

       There are plenty of ways to be yourself in any situation, for example, you can just walk around in the room and find something which may interest you or meet a person who is feeling the same way as you are. But one thing we can't afford to do is let our thoughts have the control over the situation. These thoughts that indicate that we do not fit in are the thoughts which relate very differently compared to the situation we are in that moment and are referred to as distractions. Well, we all have heard it from the teachers back in our school calling us out saying that we are distracted away from the studies and all that and they weren't wrong. They knew that you had no control over the young mind which was always eager to learn. It is okay to be distracted in a given situation but it is not okay to let it control the same situation. We have to keep in mind that we can convert any situation or environment into an area of our own where we can be comfortable with and can make amends to stay positive in every sense. 

         This is how the power of the thoughts which possess influence the environment we are in and tend to make the decisions based on them. We should always hold the power to control our thoughts and make the  decisions accordingly and not based on the people or our surroundings. Always stay positive in the most negative situations and keep improving your lifestyle as you live.

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